Brides, take note. There is a multitude of things that you need to do in the run up to your big day. Of course, this can be overwhelming. For many brides, they feel that their biggest day is hampered by the stress of planning their impending nuptials.
Wedding planning was never intended to be an easy feat. For many, they feel that the stresses and strains of planning the day overshadow what the day is meant to symbolize. After all, your wedding day should be about the union of two people that are madly in love. Of course, you want the day to go with a hitch. You also want it to be as unique as the love that you share.
Wedding planning is not without its pitfalls. What you need is a handy guide to assist you with all of your wedding endeavours.
1. Start Planning Early
As any bride will attest, starting your wedding planning in earnest is critical to your big day being a successful one. In the midst of planning, you need a starting point. You should start with breaking down the tasks at hand. This could be arranging appointments to see venues and vendors. This could be researching appropriate wedding bands. You will want to see them in action before you book them. Typically, a betrothed couple should spend two to three years planning their big day. This is so that they can have everything that they have dreamed of at their wedding. Rushing a wedding in a matter of months will only serve to disappoint. Many wedding venues, florists and bands will be booked in advance. So, if you have your heart set on a certain venue, you need to ensure that you book it early. Early planning will stand you in good stead.
2. What Season Do You Want to Get Married In?
It is no secret that many people have a preferred season. Some brides prefer the fall, others love the summer. Choosing the season that you get married in is important. What is more, you will have to tailor your wedding around the season. Tying in your wedding to a seasonal theme looks fantastic. After all, you aren’t going to plan a winter wedding and have a luau-theme. Your wedding should reflect the season in which it is going to be in. This is essential for planning your bouquet. Seasonal are cheaper and easier to obtain than non-seasonal flowers. They will look fresher and can be sought easier than other flowers. Typically, summer flowers include:
- Freesias
- Roses
- Gypsophila
- Iris
- Gerbera
Winter flowers can be deemed as:
- Rose Hips
- Brunia
- Clematis
Your bouquet should reflect the colors of the season. This will give your bouquet a significant impact. Bright, warm colors are perfect for summer whereas pale whites and neutral tones look gorgeous in the winter.
3. Choosing the Right Venue
Picking the perfect venue can be difficult. But, you need to ensure that this something that both you and your groom want. There is a vast array of different kinds of venues that you can choose from. As a starting point, these are the most common:
- Churches
- Hotels
- Golf courses
- Vineyards
- Castles
- Destination weddings
- Beach
Choosing the right venue should be a reflection of your relationship. You may want something more low-key. For others, they want a large grand affair. Your venue should be a reflection of your budget. Do not break the bank by having an unaffordable wedding day.
4. Choose a Theme
Picking the right theme is one of the most enjoyable parts of getting married. For many brides, this is where they can impose their personality on the main event. Popular trends have seen more romantic style weddings. This is where bunting and soft pastels have adorned the venue.
Popular colors for 2014 have included:
- Coral
- Aqua
- Navy
- Olive
- Grey
- Plum
Whatever tone that you choose should be a reflection of your personality. What is more, you should try to opt for a color or theme that is accessible for your day. Plum tones look gorgeous for winter weddings. However, obtaining matching décor for this during the peak of summer will be difficult. Again, your wedding should reflect the seasons. This will enable you to choose an appropriate theme and be able to obtain the relevant décor.
5. Picking the Bridal Party
Choosing the bridal party can be challenging. You need to choose a maid of honor. What is more, you may want more than one bridesmaid. Usually, brides are more than aware of who they want to be involved in their big day. Old friends and close friends are popular favorites when it comes to choosing a maid of honor. However, some brides do not feel comfortable with pitting friends against one another. With this in mind, sisters and sisters in law become popular choices of bridesmaid. Think about what you want from your big day and who you find reliable. After all, your bridesmaid should be picking up the slack that is needed on your big day. You are going to need someone reliable and trustworthy.
6. Your Dress
Choosing the perfect wedding dress is nothing short of an ordeal for most brides. In fact, many brides feel that this is a difficult task to undertake. As a bride, you want to look nothing short of beautiful. Visit many different vendors so that you can get a feel for what you like. Different vendors will have different dresses. There will be something that you like in one of these stores. You should try on many different styles. While you may have a vision of how you will look in your dream dress, the reality can be very different. You need to make sure that you have a dress that flatters your shape. You don’t want to squeeze into a dress that is fashionable, but not made to suit your body shape.
Your wedding day does not have to be a stressful Endeavour. Enjoy your big day and feel like a princess.
