There are many tasks that the woman will have to deal with once she is engaged to her partner! The dress, the makeup, the bridesmaids gifts… the list will be endless! So it’s pretty good that your other half has to deal with the very first task; the engagement ring!
Increasingly, women are having a hand (excuse the pun!) in their engagement ring. While some want it to be a total surprise, there is nothing wrong with wanting to have some control. After all, you’ll be wearing this item every day for the rest of your life. You want to know that it’s right!
If you’ve already discussed getting married with your partner, there should be no problem in mentioning what you’d like by way of a ring one day. In fact, they might be rather relieved!
Before you go any further, ask yourself this question. Do I want classical, or do I want something a bit more unusual? This Engagement Rings 101 guide could help you answer this question. If it’s unusual you’re after, there are many different ways to make it so.
A classical engagement ring usually consists of a diamond, but what about a different stone or gem? Opal engagement rings are unique by default, thanks to the huge variety from stone to stone. Opals can only be found in a handful of countries, and are one of the world’s rarest stone. If you do fancy a coloured gem, there are lots to pick from. Emerald, ruby and sapphire stones make for absolutely stunning engagement rings. Pink tourmaline is rarely seen and beautiful, also.
If you decide to go for a more unusual stone, be prepared for different cleaning rules. Some rings can simply be cleaned with washing up liquid and a baby-soft toothbrush. But this varies, and there is a chance your ring will need special treatment or solution. Factor this into the overall cost.
Alternatively, having your engagement ring custom-made ensures that it is exactly what you want. Most stores encourage going in for a consultation beforehand. You can look at different sizes, widths and materials. Then, you’ll be better prepared to decide what you want making. Do be aware the custom made rings are typically more expensive than shop-bought rings, for obvious reasons.
When it comes to choosing your band, it might seem that the options of limited to either silver or gold. But this is not the case! For example, rose gold rings are growing in popularity but are still relatively rare at the moment. Furthermore, your band doesn’t have to be plain. It can be encrusted with diamonds or gems, or consist of two or three bands bound together.
Finally, if you want a classical ring with a special touch, consider asking for an engraving. Hidden on the inside of the ring, you can ask your partner to decide on a message or phrase. That way, your engagement ring will be special both inside and out.
