When you’re in the middle of planning a wedding, you’re trying to think as your future self. It’s an attempt at being a Nostradamus in chiffon; getting an idea of how you will think and feel on the day itself.
Have you ever wished you could have the true gift of foresight? To really know what it’s like to live through your wedding day?
Unfortunately, that’s not what’s on offer here. No miracle working today, ladies. However, three brave brides have stepped forward with their stories, their expectations, and how it all worked out in the end. Hopefully you’ll be able to learn something from them.
Dominique, 29, married Ben after three years of dating. They live in CT.
What I Wanted: “Small, non-traditional and intimate in a small location. The ceremony is what matters, not the trappings of it.”
What I Got: “Exactly that! We had a small wedding party for a simple legal ceremony and then went and had an outdoor party at home.”
How I Felt About It On The Day: “On the day, I was entirely happy with the decisions I made. We took the money we’d planned to go on the wedding and put it towards a house and some maternity cover for the kids we want. I kept remembering that during the day and thinking it was great.”
What I’d Do Differently: “I’m still glad we made the decisions we did, but I have noticed how unimpressive it is to look back on. A friend of mine got married at The Riverhouse at Goodspeed Station, and it was spectacular; her photos look a lot better, grander. I’d like to do something like that for vow renewal at some point.”
Any Advice For Future Brides? “Allow a little extravagance!”
Martha, 33, married Mat after being together for a decade. They now live in GA after relocating from NY.
What I Wanted: “Big. Bold. Massive dress. Outlandish party. The whole shebang.”
What I Got: “Something close to it. It was more like a massive party than a wedding, which is what I’d intended.”
How I Felt About It On The Day: “I had a roaring headache by the end of the day from all the noise. I was also conscious we’d gone way over budget.”
What I’d Do Differently: “Stick to the budget! And build some quiet time in the day for a little decompression – my new husband and I spent a lot of time around other people. That’s great, but if I had it again, I’d want to sneak an hour or so in with just the two of us to absorb it.”
Any Advice For Future Brides? “It’s not your job to entertain people. It’s cliche, but it’s your day.”
Alice, 37, married Simon after two years together. They have two children and live in NJ.
What I Wanted: “Something small and intimate, very classy and elegant.”
What I Got: “My Mom made it clear she wanted to invite friends and distant relatives… everything got out of control. We ended up with over 200 people coming.”
How I Felt About It On The Day: “It didn’t ruin the day at all, and I enjoyed the company, but it was a lot to handle.”
What I’d Do Differently: “Stick to my guns a bit more with the small, intimate theme. I wanted around 50 guests, so maybe it would have been smarter to compromise around the 100 mark rather than double that.”
Any Advice For Future Brides? “Don’t forget what you want even if it ruffles family feathers.”
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